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DIVORCE & SEPARATION

The decree is signed. Let's sort out the mortgage.

Refinancing an ex off the loan, buying post-divorce, reading court orders. I handle these files regularly. The details matter.

Overview

Divorce creates mortgage complications. Refinancing your ex off the existing loan. Buying a new place while old debt still shows on your credit. Court orders dictating specific terms that your lender doesn't know how to interpret.

A quit claim deed removes someone from the title. Not the mortgage. Only a refinance does that. Child support and alimony can count as income or as debt depending on which side you're on. Debts assigned to your ex may still hit your qualification until they're actually refinanced or paid off.

I deal with these regularly. The documents, the timelines, the gotchas.

What I Look For

THE DECREE
Property awards, debt assignments, support obligations, mortgage-specific requirements.
REMOVING AN EX
Refinance is the only way to remove someone from the mortgage. I handle qualification and pricing.
POST-DIVORCE BUYING
Your debt picture may look different than it actually is. Liability exclusions can change everything.
SUPPORT AS INCOME
Child support and alimony can qualify if they'll continue for a sufficient period.

How I Handle This

Review the decree. Understand the goals. Assess qualification with proper treatment of shared debts, support, and court orders. These files take more patience and documentation. That's why one person managing everything matters.

Questions I Get

How do I get my ex off the mortgage?

Refinance. The new loan is in your name only. A quit claim deed only transfers title. It does not remove anyone from the mortgage.

Can I use child support as income?

Yes, if it continues for a sufficient period from closing. Documented with the decree and payment history.

Ex was awarded debts they haven't paid?

May still affect your DTI until actually refinanced. Some programs let me exclude them with documentation. I know which ones.

How soon after divorce can I buy?

As soon as the decree is final and financials can be documented. Sometimes immediately.

Navigating a mortgage during or after divorce?

Send me what's happening. I'll tell you how to handle the mortgage side.